Our bedtime routine has gotten a lot easier lately.
Once upon a time, I remember the routine taking well over an
hour. Bedtime bottles took for-ev-er…and
then washing faces…changing diapers…and that wasn’t even on a bath night.
Of course things got easier when the girls quit taking
bottles…and then easier, still, when they stopped wearing diapers. But we’ve had a couple more transitions over
the past few weeks, and – assuming we don’t have any meltdowns – things are
almost downright easy!
When we head upstairs, Baby #1 (whoever decides to go first)
puts her pajamas on. Barring some
complicated button-up, or several warm layers, the girls are pretty proficient
in getting dressed and undressed.
In the meantime, I’m in the bathroom with Baby #2. I floss teeth, brush teeth, wash the face, and
apply moisturizer. That baby hops on the
potty while Baby #1 makes her way into the bathroom.
Somewhere in the mix, the discarded clothing gets put in the
hamper, and a bedtime story is picked.
(The girls alternate picking the story each night.)
The next part of the routine has – blissfully – remained the
same for the past four years. We snuggle
on Mommy and Daddy’s bed for our night-night story. We exchange nose kisses, and then I put my
babies to bed, one at a time.
Things have gotten much more streamlined there, too. I mentioned this briefly a few weeks ago, but
I haven’t quite been up to writing about it…it’s bittersweet, for sure.
After we transitioned the girls from their swaddle blankets,
at about six months, they began using zipper blankets. That worked very well until about a year ago,
when – at three! – their legs were getting too long for the size XL. My talented and resourceful friend Rachel
came to the rescue, though, and sewed in an additional panel of fabric to make
their sleep sacks super long. (I could
almost fit into them!) And all was well.
A few weeks ago, Husband decided – on a whim – that the
girls needed more freedom in bed, that they might get too hot having always to
be covered. I was NOT ready for that
change…so perhaps it’s best he sold them on the idea before he mentioned it to
me.
We started off with some large receiving blankets we had in
the closet, and we bought normal-size, big-kid blankets over the weekend.
As bittersweet as the transition has been, it’s cut down
significantly on our put-to-bed time.
And the girls do look so incredibly sweet snuggled in their fluffy
blankets.
I’ll focus on that, and the extra time we have around
bedtime…and suppress the realization that my BABIES are growing up.
5 comments:
awwwwwwww.... they are growing up.
our routine is so similar! i thought about it a lot while we were visiting friends this past week. their bedtime routine consisted of their 3 year old crying and crying and crying and laying on the floor. followed by a tv show. followed by they rocking her in a chair until she fell asleep.
every.single.night.
and then she woke up crying, too.
my hypothesis was that the kid was exhausted all of the time....but who knows. :)
and yea for baby steps!!
Imam so all for a peaceful and routine bedtime every night, in fact we still have them .
Nooooooo!!! I don't want my boys to grow up!! well.....depends on the day! Ask me tomorrow!
Your babies are becoming big girls :) ;)
I love love LOVE reading about other people's normal :)
(i know that sounds stalkerish but I'll own it!)
XXX
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