We added our precious furry boys to our family a year ago in
December. They are such a treasure, but
they’ve caused us to change our ways around the house in some respects, too.
The boys are a bit on the rambunctious side, AND they will run
off with anything small. (I’ve never
seen a cat do that before!!!) That
prompts us to keep the kitties in the basement when we’re not home. (That always sounds terrible to me, but it’s
a fully finished space as big as our first house!) When we are home, we close all the bedroom
doors to limit the kitties’ roaming.
(They’re angels when they’re with us in the common areas.)
So…when the kitties are out and about, we’re generally
hanging out in the kitchen, living room, or den. And…this has very nicely coincided with the
girls’ obsession with reading. So…we
spend a lot of time as a family reading or playing cards and hanging out with
the kitties.
Sounds wonderful, right?
It is!
Except…
The girls don’t spend nearly as much time just playing as
they used to. The vast majority of their
toys are upstairs in the playroom / bonus room, and those are rooms we close
from the kitties. The girls have their “quiet
time” on Saturdays and Sundays, and they usually play then.
But – by design – that’s their time to themselves.
So…
It’s been such a beautiful treat to happen upon my girls
playing so nicely a couple of times recently.
One day, I came home from grocery shopping and Hubby was in the basement
with the kitties. I sneaked upstairs to
the most wonderful sight. I stood in the
hallway and watched the girls, unbeknownst to them. They were playing with their snap circuits,
working together to figure something out.
How I loved listening to their conversation.
“I’m trying to make the flying saucer, but I can just get the fan to
work.” “Here, let me show you what I
think will get it.” They communicated so
nicely, helped each other respectfully, and delighted with each other when they
got what they were looking for.
Even after I interrupted them, they continued to play so
well.
And then earlier this week, I came home to Hubby cutting the
grass, and the kitties were in the basement by themselves. I could hear the girls in their
playroom. “Do you have any baby food?” “No, we can just make our own. Here, I’ll mush up some bananas.”
They had a very elaborate setup with their baby dolls and a
full meal. This time, they were waiting
on me to join them. “Mommy, will you
play with us?!” When I went into their
playroom, there was a seat for me at their little table, and they had even saved
the best piece of cake for me.
These exchanges used to be a daily thing…in our old house,
where their toys were in the den…before kitties…before school and work. I enjoyed them then…but I absolutely treasure
these precious moments now.